THE TRUTH: About getting a woman off. It is all in the hips!
How is that some women can get off during penetration and some cant. Some know the secret.
The one that our mothers never tell us about. If you are having trouble having an orgasm during sex let me give you some advice: move your hips. Think of yourself as a belly dancer moving with undulating hip movements. This is the KEY. If you just lie there during sex waiting to get back to the oral you are missing the big O.
You are not alone. I will bet that 50% off women miss the big O most off the time, if they have ever had one during penetration. What is a girl to do? TAKE CONTROL. If your partner is pounding you like a hammer then forget it. It might make them come but it is unlikely to do anything for you excpet bang your bladder.
Now if you are one of the women out there that love to be done hard. Great. Write to me and tell me how it works for you. In talking to my friends, we only tell me to "fuck us hard’ so they can be quick and get out. It is an old trick of the oldest profession.
If you are having trouble with your partner then tell them to lie back flat and you climb on top not facing them but facing their feet. You should be able to reach their feet with the palms of your hands. Slowly lower yourself down on their penis/dildo and roll your hips back and forth as if you were a belly dancer. Lean forward and grab their feet to gain traction but lie back occasionally and let them grab your breasts. The trick is not to let them move. You do all the movement. I honestly do not think your partner will mind.
Let me know how it works.
THE TRUTH ABOUT: WHAT WOMEN WANT FROM MEN
What do women want?
They want a man to take them to dinner, listen to their problems, do at least 50% of the housework, rub their shoulders and get them off. He should be attractive to her, but not so much that he makes her insecure about keeping him. He should be finacialy stable with adequate prospects for the future. She wants a realtionship that is stable and reassuring but she wants to be surprised now and then. She wants to be told that she is beautiful even if she is not feeling it then. She wants to be flattered. She wants to think that her man can be a little jealouse sometimes.
THE TRUTH ABOUT: MEN, COWS, & MILK
"Why By the Cow when you can get the milk for free"
WHAT BULLSHIT
Let me break this down: women are cows, men are…dairy farmers, they want milk. So we assume that they ONLY reason dairy farmers want cows is because they give milk. Would they still want the cows if they are giving the milk to someone else? Is the milk the same from all cows or is there a difference in milk from different cows. I can tell you know. Not all cows are alike. The milk is different. He might want milk but the right man will want it from you so badly that he will do anything, anything to have it. This cow farmer relationship is not one-sided. The Farmer must have a barn and a the ability to house the cow even if he is just renting.
OH and BTW MILK IS NOT SEX.
Let’s try the not so literal: Men wont’ marry you if you move in and live/sleep/cook for him before marriage. Here is the best advice, I can give: LIVE WITH THE MAN BEFORE MARRIAGE. Do not jump into a marriage with a man that you have not lived with for at least a year.
You know someone a little when you date, and a little when it is serious but it is not until you have lived with someone than it truly becomes apparent who they are. People can hide LOTS of things before marriage. It is a lot harder to do it when you living together.
You have to check this guy out from every angle. This is your opportunity to try him out. Make sure:
- The sex is great, he is always trying to please you, first.
- He really wants to know how your day is going.
- On most days he calls you at least once
- He should surprise you with little gifts (flowers, or small thoughtful items)
- he should talk long term (planning vacations, etc)
- He should not make a big purchase without at least asking your input
- He should not make career decisions without at least asking you your opinon
- You should see how he is to his friends, coworkers.
- Is he a slob? Do you want to spend your life cleaning up after him.
- Is he spendy? Does he spend everything that comes in the door
- How much does he have saved. Make sure you see the bank statements. Don’t take his word on it
Get the facts. Then make your decision.
The Truth About Choosing a Husband
For all you girls out there that think that your prince is going to find you some day. Give up. The prince that happens to stumble onto your doorstep is not the one that you want. You have to make your selection of a husband more carefully than you do choosing a college. A good husband supports you, lifts you up, makes you part of a team. A bad husband, can drag you down sap your energy.
DO NOT confuse marriage with romantic love. Romantic love is about falling in love, being in love and acting in a loving way. This is not marriage. Marriage is work. Love just makes it easier to bear the burden. Your life is easier with a solid partner that you love. But if you are torn between a man that is hot, and one that is stable. Choose Stability every time. Hot is great in a lover but fades quickly when you are faced with 2:00am feedings all by yourself.
A long term marriage is about a partnership. It is you and him against the world. You will have times when you won’t have enough money, or you have to make tough choices about medical decisions or family issues to deal with. You need someone who is going to take positive action. You are not always going to be able to take on everything. If you choose a husband that is squimenish, or a folder you will end up hating him in the long run.
If your man does any of these things RUN do not walk to the exit.
- if he folds under pressure: gets paralized by his decisions and doesn’t know what to do
- if he seeks other people’s opinions and relys on them instead of his own
- if he changes his opinion more than his socks
- if he can’t manage money,
- if he puts off execercising
- if he doesn’t see a doctor/dentist regularly
- if he feels that people who are less than him are there because they brought it on themselves
- if he has never had to prove himself (could be at school or sports) Has he always taken the easy way out?
- if he is grossed out by blood, puke or illness
- if he doesn’t take care of you when you are sick
- if he plans vacations with out you
The choice of a husband is yours. Do not let a man choose you or a prince find you. You are the one that is going to be most effected by a bad relationship. You have all the cards. You have what he wants (no not sex) Stability Men need women. Plain and simple. You are always in the driver’s seat.
