"Why By the Cow when you can get the milk for free" 

WHAT BULLSHIT

Let me break this down:  women are cows, men are…dairy farmers,  they want milk.  So we assume that they ONLY reason dairy farmers want cows is because they give milk.  Would they still want the cows if they are giving the milk to someone else?  Is the milk the same from all cows or is there a difference in milk from different cows. I can tell you know.  Not all cows are alike.  The milk is different.  He might want milk but the right man will want it from you so badly that he will do anything, anything to have it.  This cow farmer relationship is not one-sided.  The Farmer must have a barn and a the ability to house the cow even if he is just renting. 

OH and BTW MILK IS NOT SEX.

Let’s try the not so literal:  Men wont’ marry you if you move in and live/sleep/cook for him before marriage. Here is the best advice, I can give:  LIVE WITH THE MAN BEFORE MARRIAGE.  Do not jump into a marriage with a man that you have not lived with for at least a year. 

You know someone a little when you date, and a little when it is serious but it is not until you have lived with someone than it truly becomes apparent who they are.  People can hide LOTS of things before marriage.  It is a lot harder to do it when you living together. 

You have to check this guy out from every angle.  This is your opportunity to try him out.  Make sure:

  • The sex is great, he is always trying to please you, first.
  • He really wants to know how your day is going.
  • On most days he calls you at least once
  • He should surprise you with little gifts (flowers, or small thoughtful items)
  • he should talk long term (planning vacations, etc)
  • He should not make a big purchase without at least asking your input
  • He should not make career decisions without at least asking you your opinon
  • You should see how he is to his friends, coworkers. 
  • Is he a slob?  Do  you want to spend your life cleaning up after him.
  • Is he spendy?  Does he spend everything that comes in the door
  • How much does he have saved.  Make sure you see the bank statements.  Don’t take his word on it

Get the facts.  Then make your decision.